Sunday 30 September 2012

WHAT MAKES LOVE EMPTY

The saying goes thus "It is whatever you leave carelessly that a goat carries". If related to matters of relationships, it can be said to be, "It is the spouse you do not care for that another man/woman entices and get". 

Experiencing matters of the heart does not seem to be a stranger but understanding matters of the heart might be quite a challenge for many of us and as it has always been said that challenges are not meant to oppress but to make you press forward to achieve your desired goal. Based on the above statement it will then be correct to say understanding matters of the heart is worth looking forward to as we are sure it will lead us to a desired goal. 


Love is a word that entails a lot but it is commonly used while empty. It can be compared to a person's system's hard drive that contains mostly everything the system needs to function but this person mostly uses the hard drive when infected with a virus that clears the memory therefore leading to the person who owns the hard drive not to value it because it is already empty when used. 



Love is full of things like Patience, Kindness, Tolerance, Peace, Long Suffering and so many things. Love becomes empty of all these things when there is doubt. You see a wife who claims to love and says "I love you" every time she sees her husband and yet the first thing she does immediately the husband picks a call is to try and find out who called in suspicion of foul play. Such love is empty and all it does is paralyses the relationship. It kills faster than any disease. 

The only solution i can think of at the moment is this. "When You Love Never Doubt, and When You Doubt Never Love".


If you know of any other solution not to make love empty please post when typing your comment.